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It Is Time to Review What Is Your Ultimate Target in Life

    We are born into this world, not by choice but by chance. No matter the gender, race, or background, every human being embarks on a journey that starts the same way crying out into a vast unknown. As infants, our only goals were survival and play. We needed toys, affection, and food. But over time, the simplicity of our desires was replaced with responsibilities, expectations, and shifting goals.

Let’s pause for a moment. Ask yourself this: "What is my ultimate target in life?"

You’ve walked so far. You’ve achieved so many milestones. But where are you heading?

The Life Timeline: How Our Goals Keep Changing

From birth to adulthood, we ride an emotional and mental rollercoaster. Let’s look at the natural evolution of our ambitions and dreams.

Toys and Innocence (Ages 0–10)

At this stage, life was about colors, fun, play, and protection. Our biggest problem was not getting our favorite toy. We were free, joyful, and completely dependent on others for survival and happiness.

Examinations and Achievements (Ages 10–18)

Suddenly, the world demanded results. Grades became our new toys. Instead of craving dolls or cars, we wanted first place, certificates, and admiration from parents and teachers. Society began to set the rules.

Higher Studies and Dreaming Big (Ages 18–25)

College or university became the next goal. We started chasing careers, fame, and even love. We imagined our future with excitement, sometimes confusion. The "what will I be" question started haunting us. Our minds were filled with plans job, car, marriage, freedom.

Love, Marriage, and Settling Down (Ages 25–35)

We believed we had grown up. For some, this stage included love affairs, breakups, weddings, and the birth of children. It was the phase of real-world responsibilities: buying land, building a home, owning a vehicle, and trying to balance love and work.

Chasing Stability (Ages 35–45)

We started to value comfort. A better job, a family vacation, children's school fees, growing a business, saving for emergencies, and building our reputation. Time flew faster. Our dreams were now more material success was defined by assets and status.

The Mirror Stage (Ages 45–55)

You begin to ask questions. Where did time go? What have I done with my life? Who have I become? Children are growing fast. Responsibilities increase. But that burning question remains, “What is all this for?”

Destination Unknown: Are You Living with a Master Plan?

It’s common to live without a solid destination. Many people confuse tasks with goals. You may have achieved everything life demanded:

✔ Passed school

✔ Got into university

✔ Found a job

✔ Married and had kids

✔ Built a house

✔ Own a business or vehicle

But what now?

Is that the end?

Is that all you’re here for?

Life Without an Ultimate Target is Like Sailing Without a Compass

Imagine being on a ship in the middle of the ocean. You’ve got fuel, food, even a good crew but no map, no compass, no destination. That’s how most people live.

Yes, you're moving. Yes, you're doing things. But where are you truly heading?

Defining the Ultimate Target: What Makes a Human Life Worth Living?

Let’s be clear: this is not about escaping responsibilities or abandoning your job and family.

This is about understanding your bigger purpose and aligning your actions with that goal so that at the end of your life, you don’t lie on your deathbed with regret.

1. Material Success Is Temporary

Jobs, vehicles, properties, gadgets they are tools, not goals. They help you live comfortably, but they can never give you lasting peace. Once you get one, you chase the next.

2. Emotional Attachments Change

Even relationships evolve. Your children will grow up, start their lives, and have their own journeys. Friends come and go. So what remains?

3. Responsibilities Are Not Your Identity

Being a father, mother, boss, or employee is a role. But who are you beyond these roles?

Spiritual Blueprint: The Forgotten Chapter

Every human being is spiritual at their core. You don’t have to be religious to be spiritual. You only have to be aware that this life has an end, and what matters is how you leave the stage.

Have You Prepared for the Last Moment?

Think about it.

If today was your last day 

Would you be proud of your life?

Would you have inner peace?

Or would you feel:

“I did everything but I forgot myself”?

Designing a Master Plan for a Meaningful Life

Let’s build a master plan not just for surviving, but for living with meaning.

Step 1: Review Your Life So Far

Take a journal and write down:

• What goals have I already achieved?

• Which goals were truly satisfying?

• What regrets do I carry?

Step 2: Define Your Core Values

Ask yourself:

• What truly matters to me?

• What values do I want to live by?

Peace? Love? Wisdom? Kindness? Freedom?

Step 3: Create Your Life Vision

This is your ultimate target. Not a to-do list. A vision.

Examples:

• "I want to die knowing I helped others grow."

• "I want to live simply but meaningfully."

• "I want to become spiritually wise."

Step 4: Align Your Daily Life

Match your current actions with your life vision.

• Are you working too much and ignoring your health?

• Are you surrounded by people who drain your energy?

• Are you spending time on what matters—or just on urgent things?

Step 5: Prepare for Your Final Days

That sounds grim, but it’s powerful.

Ask:

• Will I die with dignity?

• Will I leave a legacy?

• Will my children understand what mattered to me?

The Result-Driven Life vs. The Meaningful Life

A result-driven life is measured by money, trophies, and fame.

A meaningful life is measured by impact, peace, and joy.

You can have both but only if you know what you’re really aiming for.

Freedom Isn’t Found in Retirement - It’s Found in Clarity

Many people wait for retirement to live. But what if freedom begins now with a decision?

Freedom is not a bank balance. It is knowing:

• Who you are

• Why you’re here

• Where you’re heading

What Legacy Will You Leave Behind?

Ask yourself daily:

• Am I living for just today or forever?

• What would people say about me at my funeral?

• Did I live in a way that inspired others?

Spiritual Success: The Ultimate Target

Spiritual success is not about religion. It’s about being awake, aware, and alive even in suffering, even in struggle.

It means:

• Accepting your role in this world

• Fulfilling your duties without becoming a slave to them

• Making peace with life and death

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Conclusion: Don’t Let Life Pass Unexamined

It’s not too late. You’re still breathing. You still have time to design your life the way it was meant to be.

Stop chasing everything. Start chasing the one thing that matters your ultimate target.

Live a life so meaningful that at your final breath, you can say,

“I did it right.”

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FAQs

1. What does “ultimate target” in life mean?

Your ultimate target is your deepest life purpose—the reason you were born, beyond material success or societal expectations.

2. Can I change my life purpose later in life?

Yes. It’s never too late to rethink, redefine, and realign your life with what truly matters.

3. Isn’t focusing on spiritual goals irresponsible?

Not at all. Preparing for your inner peace helps you handle external responsibilities with strength and clarity.

4. How do I balance responsibilities and spiritual growth?

Start small. Integrate meaningful practices like gratitude, mindfulness, or charity into your daily routine.

5. Why do people feel empty even after achieving everything?

Because achievements without purpose feel hollow. When your goals lack soul, success feels meaningless.

Namo Buddhaya!